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Have David or Irene perform your wedding ceremony.

David is a retired ordained minister and has been marrying couples for over 35 years. Irene is a Justice of the Peace. They perform weddings individually and also as a couple.

It does not matter that you have no idea how to create a ceremony. David will work with you to make your ceremony truly unique. Each couple can have as much or as little input into making their ceremony reflect their own preferences. David is skilled at officiating traditional to very contemporary rituals. The emphasis is placed on expressing the meanings which are most important to you the bride and groom on your special day.

David knows how to bring families together – from the rehearsal through the ceremony in a way that fosters harmony and joy.

As experienced couples’ therapists, he can provide effective pre-wedding relationship counseling if requested.

"Pre-Marital Coaching"

You have the perfect dresses, tuxes, DJ, flowers and cake......... What about the perfect foundation for your marriage?

I can help you build a solid foundation for your marriage.


Marriage is a big decision and a life changer. I offer three 1 and a half hour coaching sessions to prepare you for the lifetime commitment you are making. As a result of this preparation...

*You will gain effective communication skills

*And a deeper understanding and love for each other.

Give your marriage the best start possible.

Building Effective Communication Skills

is the key to all 3 sessions!!!!!

Session 1 - Introduction: You will learn why you are attracted to each other and how you are the perfect person for your partner's growth. I will teach you the three evolutionary phases all relationships go through...how to recognize and effectively navigate through them.

Session 2 - You will learn the Couples' Intentional Dialogue, a way of expressing concerns and differences with safety and empathy. You will learn how to address conflict without losing connection. What couple doesn't need to learn how to effectively handle conflict?

Session 3 - I will teach you the differences between requirements, needs and wants. This will give you the skills necessary to create a shared vision for your marriage. This is your future we are talking about here!

You can purchase these sessions individually or as a package.

Contact: David Tomkinson, MDiv

davidtom@comcast.net or 603-770-7492

These sessions make a great gift....put them on your wish list

Weddings &
Pre-Marital Counseling

From a Professional Event Planner

"I can’t say enough about David. From the first time I met him, I knew he would be perfect for my wedding clients. His warm, caring and genuine personality is such an asset. My clients instantly feel comfortable with him. David takes time to personally meet with each couple. He helps them create a meaningful and memorable ceremony that reflects what is important to them. When a couple hires me, I can only hope they do not already have a minister so I can pass along David’s name. With David on my team, I know that the ceremony will run smoothly. His wisdom and calming influence is an attribute that everyone appreciates."
-Amy Piper, Owner www.SignatureEventsNH.com

From a Couple Who Received Pre-Marital Coaching

"We were having trouble seeing eye to eye on some issues, and so we signed up for the coaching package with David. Those three sessions were invaluable! He is a skilled couple's counselor, and his approach to relationships is very non-threatening, yet very practical. He helped us hold onto the big picture of the purpose of our marriage, which we had lost in the myriad details of planning the wedding. It made our ceremony that much more special. I think every couple should get David's coaching series."

Email From a Bride's Parents

"David, I wanted to express how much your service meant to us. You truly spoke to the heart of the matter, and I am so grateful for your words. It was so beautiful, and I heard this from so many people at the wedding. We feel blessed to have had you perform their ceremony. Thank you so much. We have 2 more to go and hope you can do theirs as well!"

-Mr. & Mrs. Mark Connolly